Shopping shopping and shopping…
That’s awl im doing nowadays… my cousins much awaited wedding is coming near, me and dad and mom and my bro… though everyone says such a small family, aren’t able to finish our preparations till now…
The basic purchasing is done and now the tailor is irritating the hell out of us… almost spoiling my and moms beautiful clothes… =( arrrgghhh!! I hate these stupid tailors, when Im trying so hard to make them understand the way I want my dress to be, they’re like “baji fikar hi na karen samjh agai!!” But then they go ahead trying to stitch the dress in the easiest way they know and end up making the complete opposite of what ive told them… And then I go crazy!
When I design something for myself, I start day dreaming about it, about the way ill carry it, the accessories or how ill do my hair with it, how will the flares look so pretty etc etc… and then I so HATE it when it doesn’t turns out the way I want it… I feel like… like I tell my friends that my heart came under a car and squashed… yeah that’s exactly the way I feel… =P
Today the stupid tailor ruined my mom’s clothes… Like hello Mr. tailor! aren’t u aware that long shirts are in right now and how many times I told you the four four that is 44 should be the length of my mums shirt but no no no… he's got hay instead of brains and he went ahead making short shirts for my mum… my mum was so depressed the whole day, it was such a pretty expensive suit and there was no way it could be made right… =(
Anyway me and my dad went to the same shop and got her a new one as a surprise today and im sure she’ll go wild with excitement when we tell her about it… its even more beautiful, her fav color combination, gray pink and maroon… its just wow! I hope and I pray that the tailor doesn’t ruin this one… if he does, ill sue him or Ill make sure I burn his shop down… HUH!!
Angry Me!!
Anyways… what really I wanted to share in my post today was to let it out that how special was today!
Shopping with friends and my mother is always fun but today for the first time I shopped with my dad, just the two of us!! YAYIE!! It was sooooo much fun!! Infact ill always remember this day…
It’s not that ive never shopped with him before, its that, that mostly its either the whole family shopping together, or just me mama and papa… we usually split in pairs and shop for stuff and its always me and my mom when it comes to clothes… but today I shopped for lawn and the dress I mentioned earlier for my mom with my dad… =)
Initially I was not sure about the idea… cz my dad doesn’t bargain and somehow doesn’t understand the terms we use when buying clothes… like crape’s trousers and crinkle chiffon, sartan etc.. but to my great surprise he quickly picked up the Shop-language and then it was ON!!
We shopped from noon till night, I had my fav zinger double treat… and had dhabbay ki doodh pati… yummm!! He got me lawn suits and shirts and he even help me come up with the designs for them… that were amazing… =)
I helped him get new spectacles and picked out shirts for him… and finally we had an awesome time during the drive, teasing, singing and fighting like we always do…
It was a perfect father daughter day! And I want so much more of them!! We came home and I didn’t waste one sec to get it all out… and I shared every single sec of the day with my mom… it was so hard keeping the dress secret from my mom in my tummy… but I did… and she kept asking what took you people so long… and we went off lying about the traffic jams and what not… winking at each other when she wasn’t looking… ;))
It was such a simple but an amazing day…
Its strange that I find girls my age not close to their dads… they are hesitant when talking to their fathers, they don’t share that special bond… some don’t even bother to tell them about whats on with their lives…
It’s just the opposite for me… me and my dad are close closer and closest, he's my best friend, I can tell him anything and everything… even though I most of the time I go around showing Nakhray… he never scolds me… cz he knows im just kidding, instead he teases me and does meri nosy men dum! Hehehe!
That’s when I feel really happy for myself and really feel sad for other girls… they are so not familiar with a dads hug, or the happy jolly teasing moments, or the peace and sense of security we have just knowing that he's there and the love which is like no other kind of love that makes up a daughter father relationship so special…
Im blessed and so lucky to have such loving parents… not just my mum who knows me inside out, who is my bestest friend too but also such a loving dad who always tell me that he won’t be able to stop his tears when ill be heading to my new home…
Love you mum… Love you dad!
